Three choices, not a slot machine
Yes, Maybe, or No — a deliberate choice that respects your time, instead of a swipe pile designed to keep you scrolling.
Connected is a relationship-forward social app built on trusted introductions, shared interests and real-world events — not swipes, not follower counts.
Free to use · Live on the web · Mobile apps in testing
📍 Brooklyn
UX designer who reads, runs, and remembers names.
No · Maybe · Yes — the 3-choice system
The apps promised the world and delivered noise. Somewhere between the swiping and the scrolling, real connection got lost.
You judge and get judged in half a second on a single photo. It's exhausting, shallow, and it rarely leads anywhere real.
Social platforms reward performance, not presence. You have hundreds of 'friends' and no one to call on a Tuesday.
Bots, catfish, and strangers with no accountability. Meeting someone new online means quietly bracing for the worst.
You match, you chat, it fizzles. The conversation never becomes a coffee, a hike, or a friendship that lasts.
There's a better way to find your people. We built it.
Your profile
Jordan, 31
📍 Brooklyn · ✓ Verified
Vouches from friends
“Known Jordan for 8 years — the most genuine, show-up-for-you person I know.”
Connected is built around the things that actually create lasting bonds: shared interests, people who'll vouch for you, and meeting in the real world.
You choose your interests and what you're looking for — dating, friendship, or simply experiences — and meet people who line up with that, not with a single profile photo.
The people who know you can vouch for you, and their vouch shows on your profile. Real accountability instead of anonymous risk.
Group events first, one-to-one naturally after, and a 72-hour clock on every new match so conversations turn into plans instead of drifting. Connected is designed to become real dinners, real runs, real friendships — offline.
Every feature exists to do one thing: help you build relationships that actually last.
Yes, Maybe, or No — a deliberate choice that respects your time, instead of a swipe pile designed to keep you scrolling.
The people who know you best vouch for who you are, right on your profile. Real accountability replaces anonymous risk.
Phone cameras quietly stamp photos with the GPS coordinates of where they were taken. Connected strips that from every upload before it leaves your device — and refuses the upload if it can't.
Trivia nights, run clubs, dinners, mixers. Group-first gatherings at partner venues, where connection happens naturally.
Discover people around you — with location sharing off by default and switched on only when you decide.
A shared question bank helps a chat become a plan, so connection doesn't die in the inbox.
A new match comes with 72 hours on the clock. Plan to meet and the clock stops. It is a nudge to actually say something, not a punishment — and it is why your matches list is short and current instead of a graveyard.
Share what actually matters — your interests, what you're here for, the things that shaped you. Then invite a friend to vouch for you.
See people who share your interests and intent. Choose Yes, Maybe, or No — no frantic swiping, no games.
Join a group event or plan a one-to-one. Connection moves off the screen and into your actual life — where it belongs.
Connected isn't a feed you scroll. It's built for the kinds of evenings you'd actually turn up to.
Connection only matters if you feel safe enough to be yourself. These are the protections that are in the app today.
Report or block anyone from their profile or your chat. Blocking takes effect immediately and removes them from your discovery.
Nothing about where you are is shared until you switch it on, and you can switch it off again at any time.
Camera photos carry hidden GPS coordinates. We remove that from every upload before it is stored — and if a photo can't be cleaned, we refuse it rather than publish it.
One tap erases your account, your data and your photos — including the files themselves, not just the links to them. No retention period, no dark pattern.
Connected feels effortless from the first tap — calm, warm, and free of the noise you're used to. Use it on the web today; the iOS and Android apps are in testing now.
Events
Global Singles Festival
Same day, every major city
Local picks
Rooftop Mixer
Tonight · 41 going
Trivia & Tacos
Sat · 28 going
Connected 5K
Sun · 138 going
📍 Brooklyn
UX designer who reads, runs, and remembers names.
No · Maybe · Yes — the 3-choice system
Discovery, matches, messages and events are unlimited on the free plan and always will be — capping them would just make Connected smaller for everyone. What you can buy is knowing sooner and being seen more.
The whole app, no timer on it
$0
Free, permanently — not a trial
Open the appStop guessing who is interested
$9.99/mo
or $6.99/mo billed yearly — save $36
Get PlusFor people who would rather be introduced
$24.99/mo
or $16.99/mo billed yearly — save $96
Get PremiumNot sure yet? Plus is also $7.99 a week, and Premium $14.99 — cancel whenever.
Run a venue or put on events? Listing is free and you can post as many events as you like. After that you only pay when we fill a table — $2 a guest.
Subscriptions are available on the web while the mobile apps are in testing.
Both — and more. You choose what you're here for: dating, friendship, or simply experiences and events. Connected introduces you to people who match that, so nobody is guessing what anybody wants.
Two ways. First, you get three deliberate choices — Yes, Maybe, No — on people who share your interests and intent, rather than an endless swipe pile. Second, trust is built in: friends vouch for you, and reporting and blocking are one tap away everywhere.
The people who know you best can vouch that you're real and genuine, and their vouch appears on your profile. It's a warm introduction at scale — real human accountability instead of anonymous risk.
The whole app is free — discovery, matches, messaging and events are unlimited on the free plan and stay that way. Plus and Premium are optional and buy you speed, not access: seeing who liked you, undoing a pass, travel mode. You can subscribe on the web today; while the mobile apps are in testing, subscriptions are web-only.
Reporting and blocking are one tap away and blocking takes effect immediately. Location sharing is off by default. Photo uploads are stripped of the GPS data cameras attach to them. And deleting your account really deletes it, photos included. We're a small team and we review reports ourselves — we'd rather tell you that than promise a response time we can't yet guarantee.
When you match, a 72-hour countdown starts. It's there because the failure mode of every other app is a list of matches nobody ever messaged. Say something, or mark that you're planning to meet, and the clock stops. To be straight with you about what the timer does today: it's a prompt and a reminder, not a shutter — we don't slam the conversation closed the moment it runs out.
No. There was one optional feature that drafted a suggested opener, and we removed it on 17 September 2026. The person on the other end had no way of knowing a machine had written it, and on an app built around knowing who you're talking to, that was the wrong trade. Nothing you read in Connected was written by a model. We do use an automated check on uploaded photos, which is a safety filter, not a writer.
Connected is live on the web today at app.connected-social.com. The iOS and Android apps are in testing and will follow.
Connected is open on the web right now, and free to use. Come and build a profile — the early community is small, and that's rather the point.
Free to use · Live on the web · Mobile apps in testing